Exodus Pt ll (Photography Artwork)
Writings :: Exodus. The Myth of Romantic Love. Amera Ziganii Rao
The myth of romantic love is therefore this. The exchange of emotional care for emotional care in a corrupt world of misogyny and Tribe non love. Love as a pure form does not exist and may be an ideal, but a far away, highly evolved ideal that takes years and lifetimes to manifest. It is not babies and literal motherhood that a woman has to give up. That’s easy and what has fooled the modern woman, especially myself. It is emotional care for anyone other than herself. Anyone other than myself. The only way to programme herself out of chattel ship and into the right to be a whole, satisfied human being just like a man, is for a woman therefore, to give up love and give up male beauty and give up sex and give up any hope of companionship, other than in working relationships and friendships. And to find the love in creation. Vocational creation which is indeed, the most satisfying thing of all. It is about embracing the sexuality of life, and rejecting forever the sexuality of love. It is the only way to be free and it is devastating, a woman’s biggest fear and unfortunately, our biggest truth. There is no place for love in a corrupt world. There is no place for sex and there is no place for care. The truth of self love like you won’t believe it. The sexuality of life. The only place where it can exist. Embrace and enjoy it. And finally, there is hope and mastery of the two worlds. It’s all in us. There is no place for love in a corrupt world. It’s useless, dangerous and medieval. The sexuality of life. Forget love. It doesn't exist.
Amera Ziganii Rao © 2012
I wept because the process by which I had become a woman was painful. I wept because from now on I would weep less. I wept because I had lost my pain and I was not yet accustomed to its absence.
Anais Nin
'Tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.
Alfred Lord Tennyson
I woke up one day and realised I had finally become present on earth. That I had finally arrived. I was no longer inhibited, shy, envious, wooden, holding back or trying to be invisible. The negative ego was dead, self esteem was mine and I had entered the magical world of mystery and courage, called Soul. I had died and been born again.
Amera Ziganii Rao © 2012
Love has to be entered into and risked for any real growth in life to be experienced. And then the next truth comes. Did the other person grow or not and were they supposed to and did they grow in the way you perceived and hoped they would in the beginning? Did you grow in the way you perceived and hoped in the beginning? Are these two perceptions in tandem or are they wildly diverging, the next time you look?
And once the healing and the purifying and the ascension methods are complete, exactly WHO is the person in front of you? That question actually only comes after the culling of ego and entrance into Soul. Moving from the illusion of love into real love, takes you finally, to a place of like or no like. Is this the person you truly want to be with or not? And that question can only be asked after the long journey to the heart of the partnership, the heart of each person and the heart of the truth.
And then you find out that you have changed so much and your values and hopes and ideals and ways of being have changed so much, that you actually want someONE different. The person in front of you is no longer enough, even in Soul.
Life and love and the beings that we are, change continuously. And suddenly you realise that the person you loved and love and will always love is not someone you actually want anymore. Then you have to leave.
The institution of relationship and marriage is not only oppressive, suppressive and repressive for all the reasons in the world, namely misogyny, female slavery and Tribe autocracy and female chattel ship. The institution of relationshp and marriage is also so wrongly and inaccurately and inhumanely, set in stone. We grow and we go. A true soul life is transient, transformative and totally unpredictable. And of course devastating and challenging.
Spirituality, psychology, and every other method of (enlightenment) looking within and 'knowing thyself' strengthens us to deal with that. Religion kills us in order not to deal with that. Whether we end up strong or weak, the reality is transience and the unpredictability of divergence or convergence and all for a very good reason. Accept it and breathe or deny it and die. 'Nothing can stop the time'.
Amera Ziganii Rao © 2012
What though the radiance which was once so bright
Be now for ever taken from
my sight,
Though nothing can bring back the hour
Of splendour in the
grass, of glory in the flower;
We will grieve not, rather find
Strength
in
William Wordsworth
what remains behind... William Wordsworth
Real men do exist. Real, mature, exciting, artistic, sexualist, individuated, spiritualised, liberated, humane, primal, egalitarian, open minded, visionary, full, human beings. Real men. Sacred Pimps. Leaving home for the second time. Taking that leap of faith and life. Leaving the Patriarchal Womb Stealing, Female Genocide Tribe again. And again and again and again until...Real men do exist.
Amera Ziganii Rao © 2012
Other Links
The Business of Money and Claiming One's Birthright. Amera Ziganii Rao
Female Intelligence. Amera Ziganii Rao
Alchemy. Amera Ziganii Rao
The Dream. Amera Ziganii Rao
The Journey Begins. Amera Ziganii Rao
The Samurai Code. Amera Ziganii Rao
Tied Up for Healing. Amera Ziganii Rao
Female Achievement. Amera Ziganii Rao
Friendship in Love. Amera Ziganii Rao
Sex. Dependency. Obsession. Misogyny. Amera Ziganii Rao
Female Titans. Amera Ziganii Rao
Human Rights. An Official Definition. Amera Ziganii Rao
A Busy Brain and an Impressive Cleavage. Amera Ziganii Rao
Spiritual Existentialism. The Whole. Amera Ziganii Rao
Osho. Courage. The Joy of Living Dangerously. (How to be free)
The Other Side of Misogyny Pt ll. Women and Desire. Polly Young-Eisendrath
The Psychology Pt ll. Men with Women of Power. Susan Edwards
http://ameraziganiirao.blogspot.co.uk/2012/04/love-psychology-pt-ll-men-with-women-of.html
Jane Eyre Pt lV. Back to The Beginning. The Self. Amera Ziganii Rao
http://ameraziganiirao.blogspot.co.uk/2012/04/jane-eyre-pt-lv-back-to-beginning-self.html
The Hero's (Heroine's) Journey. Joseph Campbell
http://ameraziganiirao.blogspot.co.uk/2011/08/heros-heroines-journey-joseph-campbell.html
The Heroine's Journey. Kama Sutra
http://ameraziganiirao.blogspot.co.uk/2011/05/kama-sutra-mira-nair-film-notes.html
Jane Eyre Pt lV. Back to The Beginning. The Self. Amera Ziganii Rao
http://ameraziganiirao.blogspot.co.uk/2012/04/jane-eyre-pt-lv-back-to-beginning-self.html
The Hero's (Heroine's) Journey. Joseph Campbell
http://ameraziganiirao.blogspot.co.uk/2011/08/heros-heroines-journey-joseph-campbell.html
The Heroine's Journey. Kama Sutra
http://ameraziganiirao.blogspot.co.uk/2011/05/kama-sutra-mira-nair-film-notes.html
Amera Ziganii Rao. A Profile
WRITER. ESOTERIC. PHILOSOPHER. ENLIGHTENER. INSPIRER. PHOTOGRAPHER. ARTIST. SELF ACTUALISATION. LIBERATION. SEXUALISATION. HUMAN RIGHTS
Amera Ziganii Rao is a philosophical writer, essayist, social commentator, cultural commentator, spiritual commentator, prose writer, dramatist and photographer as well as a consciousness explorer, mystic, self actualiser and emotional healer. She is a former hard news journalist who is now turning professional with her art forms and indeed, her healing forms, after a long journey of inner searching, self teaching and exploring many layers and areas of both craft and wisdom. She is now working on her first book of philosophy and esoteric thought, and social, cultural and spiritual commentary. She is also showing her first photography collections. And last but most definitely not least, she is building a business to share her consciousness and empowering explorations to reach as many people as possible across the world. She is in her forties and lives in London.
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AMERA ZIGANII RAO SCHOOL OF LEARNING
Writer and Enlightener, Amera Ziganii Rao, is now putting together a comprehensive and unique programme of Education For Liberation. Liberation of the lower mind into the higher mind, the soul and the inner heart and therefore one's true, confident, happy, successful, creative, sexual, sensual, individual, intelligent, emotionally healed, capable of loving and being loved self. Based on her scholarly and non scholarly work over 15 years (so far), if not for her whole life, and her extensive and intense, visceral experiences of self transformation from resignation, cynicism and despair to a state of relative bliss, and above all, the right to be, the courses will cover the method of change. The psychological, sociological, spiritual, cultural, political, emotional and physical and even anthropological methods of change. Why we are here. The meaning of life, no less. This will be on offer in the future. My first book of consciousness, a comprehensive series of online courses, live events and audio and visual material. Books, live events, CDs and DVDs. The method of change. The right to be and the way to have the right to be.
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AMERA ZIGANII RAO SCHOOL OF LEARNING ll
In the meantime, please enjoy this website. I have included many of the subjects I am covering, areas of experience and insight that I will be exploring to the fullest in my book, the courses and all the other work that is to come as a dramatist, novelist and essayist. I also of course, include many of the wise people on this planet, who have come long before me; authors, screen dramatists, playwrights, film makers, artists, and other enlighteners and grand carriers of the wisdom I have found the most helpful on my journey, to find peace and become enlightened. The seemingly impossible journey, in the face of oneself and one’s circumstances. People who have contributed massively to my healing on this mad journey called life, in this insane existence called The Universe. People who have helped to make me as good a carrier of wisdom as I in turn, can be. Thank you.
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Amera Ziganii Rao. Philosophical Writer, Communicator and Empowerer. Essayist. Dramatist. Prose Writer. Artist Photographer. Actor. Film and TV Creative. Entrepreneur. Esoteric Mystic and Scholar. Shaman. Clair Cognisant. Metaphysicist. Consciousness Explorer. Self Actualiser. Alchemist. Sage. Sacred Whore. Sexualist. High Priestess. Titan. Gladiator. Freedom Fighter. Feminist. Egalitarian. Spiritual Truth Seeker. Defender of The Meek and The Unrecognised. Warrior. Samurai. Outlaw. My Business is Human Rights, The Right to a Sexual Society, Self Actualisation and Freedom. My Business is To Overthrow Fascism, in the Home and in the Country. My business is also mastering destiny. Overthrowing the ultimate fascism. The Universe. Fate. Submitting to the journey to liberate and evolve oneself, through following one's heart, however much heartbreak and devastation it leads to on the long long long journey to freedom and then the longer journey to happiness. 'Long Road to Freedom', as Nelson Mandela says. My business is always taking risks, never giving up and making the endless sacrifices it takes to become whole. Enlightenment, Nirvana and then Parinirvana and beyond. My business is pain.
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