Papparazzi Girl. A Self Portrait
Sadomasochism. The Definition. Amera Ziganii Rao
Sado masochism or any sexuality that includes the immense passion and power play of the dominant and compliant, is the PLAY ACTING of the healing of fascism and tyranny. NOT the continuation of it. There seems to be a lot of titillation and foolishness surrounding even the words, sado masochism. Strange. The fact that it’s strange, not the sado masochism.
Sado masochism to me is the reward for a compliant’s road to revolution. Her healing, her nurturing and her right to the most satisfying, womb like, erotic, power play on Earth. To be with a real protector and provider at last, where it matters. The sex. The sexuality of a Cinderella warrior and a reformed sadist is the truth of sado masochism. Nothing weird, nothing strange. Extreme maybe but I would say the underbelly of the so called polite world is all this extreme. Some of us just came here to live it. The whole of it. Sado masochism is just the articulation of the healing of this extreme for those courageous enough and evolved enough to get the reward. Not for the sex. That’s easy. For the road to get to the sexual dynamic, the romantic dynamic between two people. The revolution that is required, most especially by the compliant.
Little Red Riding Hood is no meek girl. She never was but the journey she is propelled onto, to live out the play acting turns her into a warrior of proportions only dreamt about. She is a compliant warrior. A Cinderella Warrior. Everything that goes against what society tells us is power and it turns out that her man is as confused about power as everyone else. Hence the second revolution of her life. To reform him from the beast of selfishness and self gratification that he is, into a true dominant. And reform him she does, as she is well practised by now. Not in reforming. No one else she knows intimately has ever reformed. But in meting out the revolution for the reformation. For his evolution, if he can complete it. Revolution for evolution.
She’s already done hers. The revolution to escape the beasts of her past, her parents, her siblings, her extended family and everyone else she has ever ‘projected’ into her life according to Carl Jung and all the great psycho analysts. Those who kept reflecting her first teachings. That she was nothing and has to be controlled, bullied, abused and disempowered, all in the name of love. The girl of the Tribe is the most vulnerable human being on Earth. Literally, her virginity is always the most central issue to the Tribe, symbolically, it never stops. She was born a child and will always be the child, the orphan child at the court of monsters. She is a womb, a nurse, a carer, a pretty thing and stupid. No one cares about her achievements and no one wants her to love a man. No one wants her to grow up and no one wants her to leave home. That phrase, ‘a dog is not just for Christmas?’ Well, a daughter is ‘once a daughter, you’re stuck there for life’. The learned helplessness of slavery and chattel-ship is intact and it’s Mummy who did the most damage. They competed for who could be the best fascist. And she won. Mummy fucks her up, Daddy fucks her up and let’s not even talk about the others. Sado masochism is the healing of all this shit. The protection and nurturing and providing she has only received in abuse of power. The granting of orgasms is the horniest thing on the planet. Helplessness in its purest and most beautiful and rewarding form. It was all for the sex.
She’s been on her own, de – chattling herself for years. She knows she will never have a parent. No matter, that’s gone. Who cares less anymore, anyway. She has climbed out of the mire and left them all behind and she has found her power, by herself, for herself, with herself. She has freed herself from being a slave, a chattel and a victim. She IS the female revolution. Now and forever. The path to being an executive in every way is well and truly forged and she doesn’t need a parent ever again. Thank you very much. She wants a dominant instead. Her reward is the dominant instead. Her right is the dominant instead. The sexual healing is the essence of a compliant’s receiving in sado masochism. If the man is a master. If the man is a man. But first, another revolution. The man has to become a friend. Otherwise, he gets to provide and protect and indeed penetrate nothing. The right has to be earned first. Little Red Riding Hood always leads the dance.
Amera Ziganii Rao ©
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Amera Ziganii Rao. A Profile
WRITER. ESOTERIC. PHILOSOPHER. ENLIGHTENER. INSPIRER. PHOTOGRAPHER. ARTIST
Amera Ziganii Rao is a philosophical writer, essayist, social commentator, prose writer, dramatist and photographer artist as well as a consciousness explorer, self actualiser and emotional healer. She is a former hard news journalist who is now turning professional with her art forms and indeed, her healing forms, after a long journey of inner searching, self teaching and exploring many layers and areas of both craft and wisdom. She is now working on her first book of philosophy and esoteric thought, and social and cultural commentary. She is also showing her first photography collections. And last but most definitely not least, she is building a business to share her consciousness and empowering explorations to reach as many people as possible across the world. She is 46 years old and currently lives in London.
AMERA ZIGANII RAO SCHOOL OF LEARNING
Writer and Enlightener, Amera Ziganii Rao, is now putting together a comprehensive and unique programme of Education For Liberation. Liberation of the lower mind into the higher mind, the soul and the inner heart and therefore one's true, confident, happy, successful, creative, sexual, sensual, individual, intelligent, emotionally healed, capable of loving and being loved self. Based on her scholarly and non scholarly work over 14 years, if not for her whole life, and her extensive and intense, visceral experiences of self transformation from resignation, cynicism and despair to a state of bliss, the courses will cover the method of change. The psychological, sociological, spiritual, cultural, political, emotional and physical and even anthropological methods of change. Why we are here. The meaning of life, no less. This will be on offer in the near future, in the form of online courses and live events, to begin with. Thank you
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In the meantime, please enjoy this website. I have included many of the subjects I am covering, areas of experience and insight that I will be exploring to the fullest in my book, the courses and all the other work that is to come as a dramatist, novelist and essayist. I also of course, include many of the wise people on this planet, who have come long before me; authors, screen dramatists, playwrights, film makers, artists, and other enlighteners and grand carriers of the wisdom I have found the most helpful on my journey, to find peace and become enlightened. The seemingly impossible journey, in the face of oneself and one’s circumstances. People who have contributed massively to my healing on this mad journey called life. People who have helped to make me as good a carrier of wisdom as I in turn, can be. Thank you.
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Esoteric. Self Actualiser. Consciousness Explorer. Philosophical Writer. Essayist. Dramatist. Prose Writer. Photographer. Film & TV Creative. Entrepreneur. Ex-Journalist.
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