You share yourself with a woman friend and she shares with you. So what's the fucking problem in the home??
''nuff said really. Friendship has no place in the Patriarchal Womb Stealing Tribe Society tribe's way of doing things. Tribe is all about womb production and everyone's membership of that tribe's need.
Friendship would have meant teamwork and an inevitable return to the truth. Friendship does that. So they took away friendship. The first women did not want to be owned, the ones who ‘chose’ to have babies with the men, when men found out their sperm created what they had believed were divine babies from divine women. Those women would have been coerced, seduced into it, care wise, not sexually, and then they would have been bullied and imprisoned.
Women were free and if there was no love in the home, they would suddenly not have been. It was not some straightforward entry into domestication with individual men in their homes as patriarchal care and ownership of the children, from a matriarchal goddess, women living together and having babies without the men aware that their sperm created them too, society. The change would have been bad too. Very bad. Very very bad. Friendship has been pushed out of marriage.
Friendship and a tribe marriage do not co – exist. Hence the Mistress, whether she is a friend a man is more intimate with about his true self or whether he is having sex with her. There is no friendship in a tribe marriage.
Hekate, (Kali) or Lilith, the 'Eve' that was thrown out in the ‘real’ story of ‘Adam and Eve’ and this idea of friendship and why men do not want it in marriage, in the sense that they can actually collude with the tribe’s conditioning, that says a woman with vocation isn’t a good wife, that she should be relegated to part time jobs and not be as career driven and vocationally driven above all things, as her man.
No man is a friend of a woman he expects to give up her career for marriage. That is certainly not friendship. ....so Lilith was thrown out and ejected, while Eve the colluder and more scared or more corruptible woman remained behind because she said she could bear the babies in the tribe way. She was the obedient one. Oh my God. A fairy tale from hell.
So young boys are taught immediately to not be their sister’s friend or marry a friend. So they have mistresses instead as grown ups. The ego is splintered as a general, but no wonder the male psycho is so twisted. Boys are brought up to disapprove of their sisters, even just by the fact that she is the one who has to be brought into line, because she is the one being killed. Boys are brought up to take charge of their sexuality. To judge them. To JUDGE them.
There is no friendship in a tribe marriage or indeed a tribe family. Ain’t that the truth.
Amera Ziganii Rao ©
A man is not a gentleman or a mature man, until he happily opens the door for a woman as powerful, if not more powerful than him, as demanding as him, as vulnerable as him, as intelligent as him and who needs as much as him. All women have the right to be as much Marilyn Monroe as Germaine Greer, and any man who cannot treasure a woman like that, should be dismissed immediately. That kind of love is worth shit.
Amera Ziganii Rao ©